Raising child is not a bed of roses, every parent want to raise their child on excellence level and use every mean for this purpose, because every child, from which family he belongs.
Here are some genius and useful tips to raise him/her a healthy, happy child owning strong bold personality:
Actions are more powerful than words
Yes, parents usually keeps advising their child but they need to understand that children adopt the actions of parents instead of those advises which are not practicable by parents themselves. Parents need to be a role model.Young kids learn a lot about how to act by watching their parents. The younger they are, the more cues they take from you.Before you lash out or blow your top in front of your child, think about this: Is that how you want your child to behave when angry?
Help your child cope with their negative emotions
Psychologists believe that the ability to care for others is suppressed by such negative emotions as anger, hatred, shame, and envy. In helping children to comprehend these negative feelings, it will push them towards resolving their internal conflicts. Self-analysis of this kind will set them on the long path to becoming compassionate, caring individuals. It’s also important for establishing psychological stability.
Show them how to resolve problems and not turn away
if your child suddenly decides they want to give up football training, ask them to explain why they want to do this, as well as the obligations they have to their teammates. If they still want to give it up, help them to find something new to ignite their passions.
They deserve your time
This is the basis for everything. You should regularly spend time with your kids, take an interest in their hobbies as well as their problems, and, most importantly, listen to what they have to say. You’ll not only learn much about your son or daughter’s unique personality, but your actions will provide them with an example of how to show care and attention for others.
Train them to help you and appreciate their efforts
Research shows that people who are used to expressing their gratitude are more inclined to feel compassion for others, are more generous, and love to help. So it’s worth developing a set of daily activities that your child can help you with at home, for which you can thank them at every stage of the day. Psychologists also recommend rewarding children for genuine displays of kindness and the effort they put into helping you.
Show them the positive and bigger side of world
almost all children are interested only in the small world of their family and friends, according to research. It’s crucial that they also learn to take an interest in the people and events outside this limited circle, which may differ from what they know in social, cultural, and geographical terms. You can help them with this by learning to be a good listener who can place themself in someone else’s shoes and feel empathy, whether it’s through films, photographs, or the news.
Make communication a priority
You can’t expect kids to do everything simply because you, as a parent, “say so.” They want and deserve explanations as much as adults do. If we don’t take time to explain, kids will begin to wonder about our values and motives and whether they have any basis. Parents who reason with their kids allow them to understand and learn in a nonjudgmental way. Be sure to include consequences. Make suggestions and offer choices. Be open to your child’s suggestions as well. Negotiate. Kids who participate in decisions are more motivated to carry them out.
Boost your child’s self-esteem
Kids start developing their sense of self as babies when they see themselves through their parents’ eyes.Praising accomplishments, however small, will make them feel proud; letting kids do things independently will make them feel capable and strong. By contrast, belittling comments or comparing a child unfavorably with another will make kids feel worthless.Choose your words carefully and be compassionate.